Mateo is a talented high school soccer player. He is asked to play a new position after a teammate is injured. He feels anxious and thinks, “I’m not naturally good at defense - this isn’t my thing.” After a bad first game, Mateo blames bad luck and refuses further practice in the new role. He avoids taking the initiative and stops seeking advice, because he is worried that he might fail again. Others notice Mateo’s struggles to adapt. Opportunities for growth and connection pass by. He stagnates. See more